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At 40 you are at an age when you have already collected plenty of baggage. Some of it is good, and some of itwell, let's just put it this way: You'd just like to check it at the airport and hope it gets lost. It's been a long time since your world was new and your life was a blank slate where you would write all sorts of marvelous accomplishments.

At 40, instead of thoughts of the great deeds you will do, your mind can become a playground for demons, such as old failures, lost loves, bad bosses, awful jobs, and the big onerelationships with wives, children, and parents. If you're one of those guys who can simply put these gremlins out of your mind, then all the more power to you. But chances are that on occasion, almost anything can and will bother you.

Now, we all know that it's considered a guy thing to hide from your feelings. It's also considered unmanly to admit weakness, especially of the mental variety. What I suggest here is one coping method that you won't have to tell anyone else about. It's simply this: Think first. That's all. Go through any problem step by

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